After five years and 70 countries, it was time to stop.
Not travelling, but travelling full-time.
I wanted a home. Somewhere familiar to return to to decompress after trips. I wanted to enrich my life with more than all travel all the time, even though travel is pretty great. I wanted a constant set of friends I didn’t have to say goodbye to. I wanted a kitchen and a gym membership, so I could work on improving my health. I wanted to focus on Never Ending Footsteps, so that I could post regularly for you rather than squeezing out one article a month, because travel was vacuuming my time and energy.
I made the decision to find a base two and a half years ago, but it actually took me two years to find the perfect place.
It was the ultimate first world problem, guys. I’d travelled for so long and fallen in love with so many places, that I simply couldn’t choose just one. There were too many perfect cities scattered all over the globe, and FOMO had me wanting to try them all on for size.
It was time to start narrowing my options down.
Coming up With Our Criteria for a Base
With so many countries for Dave and I to choose from, we were fortunate to be able to be picky. We put together a detailed list of things we wanted and needed from a potential home.
We Needed to Be Able to Legally Live and Work There
Yep. I knew I wouldn’t be able to make a success of expat life unless I threw myself fully into living in a place. I’ve had plenty of three-month-long stays in cities around the world, but they’ve never felt like home because I always knew I’d be leaving soon.
I didn’t want this to happen in the country I chose for my base, so our first rule was that both Dave and I would have to be able to legally live and work there. I love Chiang Mai and Saigon and Taipei, and many places in Mexico, for example, but if we moved there, we’d be living tourist visa to tourist visa, never knowing if we’d be let back into the country when we left. I wanted to give this whole finding a base thing my best shot and buy furniture, integrate with locals, build a community. I knew I’d only be able to do all that good stuff if there wasn’t a risk of me being kicked out.
This helped drastically lower the number of places for our potential base. I’m British and Dave’s from New Zealand, but he also has a British passport.
With our passports, we can both legally work and live in any EU countries, and I’d be able to get a partner visa for Australia or New Zealand fairly easily through Dave.
And yes, I’ll address the elephant in the room. Fuck you, Brexit! At the time, Brexit hadn’t taken place, so it wasn’t a factor in our decision. And I remain hopeful that whatever happens in the future won’t result in us being forced out of our home.
We Needed to Be Able to Comfortably Afford to Live in Our Chosen Country
While I was travelling full-time, I had a fantastic quality of life, which was something I didn’t want to give up after finding a base.
I still wanted to be able to afford to eat out for however many meals I felt like, I wanted to be able to see friends, I wanted to be able to travel for six months each year and be able to afford that on top of our rent. Basically, I didn’t want to sacrifice the quality of life we had on the road through choosing to find a home.
That helped eliminate quite a few places.
We couldn’t afford to live in any of our home countries, so that eliminated Australia, New Zealand, and the U.K. (because we’d only really want to live in London.) As much as living in London would be a dream, I knew it would be far too expensive unless I wanted to stop travelling completely and spend the majority of my time at home.
Pricey Scandinavian countries were off the cards, too, and so were more expensive Western European countries, like Switzerland.
We Wanted to Have Friends, and They’d Have to Be Planning to Stay in Our Chosen City Long-Term
Dave is an extrovert who loses his mind if he doesn’t have friends to hang out with. We’ve tried living in places where we don’t know anybody else and after a few weeks, he becomes agitated, moody, and frustrated. He needs people to be happy.
As an introvert, I don’t. Haha. But I had grown tired of the constant goodbyes that travel brings. I was meeting people and making friends, then saying goodbye 24 hours later, knowing I’d probably never get to hang out with them again. Even when I based myself in a place like Chiang Mai, where I always knew a ton of people, everyone was always coming and leaving, so it was tough to form a meaningful connection with anyone.
An important criteria for us, then, was knowing lots of people in the city we chose, and hopefully they would be people who were settled and weren’t going to be leaving in a few months.
This helped us narrow it down to a few places: Lisbon; Granada, Barcelona, or Madrid; Berlin; Vienna; Amsterdam; Bucharest.
We Needed to Live Somewhere With a Busy International Airport
Even with a base, travel is easily going to be my second-highest priority (after my health, of course.) I’m still planning on hitting up new countries for half of each year, so cheap international flights are an important factor.
Most of the places I mentioned above have easy access to an airport, aside from Granada, so that knocked it off our list. Having to (most likely) bus to Malaga, and then fly onwards to our destination was an annoying deal-breaker for us.
We Wanted to Live Somewhere With Great Weather
After five years spent following the sun around the world, I have little tolerance for cold weather. That, combined with low blood pressure and poor circulation, makes low temperatures painful for my extremities, and leaves me spending most of my days in bed. If I had the opportunity to choose where to live, I was going to prioritise somewhere warm.
Europe, however, is not the warmest of continents, even in the south. But the southern temperatures were way more bearable than the north.
By this point, we had noticed that both Spain and Portugal ticked all of our boxes.
It was time to book a flight.
The Decision to Move to Portugal
Was a spontaneous one.
We hadn’t even seriously been considering Lisbon until two friends moved there and couldn’t stop gushing about how it was the perfect base for digital nomads. We had a chat with them, decided it would be worth checking out, and booked a one-way ticket to Portugal.
Neither of us had ever been to Lisbon before.
We booked a month-long stay in an Airbnb apartment, then gave ourselves thirty days to look around, get a feel for the city, and see if it was a place we could see ourselves committing to.
It took exactly three days.
Three days after arriving, I could feel that Lisbon was the right place for me. It was beautiful and sunny and affordable and wonderful. Lisbon had everything I’d been looking for in a home, so I immediately began looking at apartments.
One month later, we signed a year-long lease, hung up our backpacks, and were handed a set of keys to our own little home.
Lisbon was home.
Here’s why I love it.
We Have Friends Here
When we moved to Lisbon, we knew just two people. Now, we’re closing in on 20. Just as our friends had convinced us to move here, they also managed to convince over a dozen more people to do exactly the same. One by one, kickass digital nomads have arrived in the city, fallen in love, and decided to sign leases within a few days of arriving.
Which is amazing.
We’re now part of a vibrant community of entrepreneurs in the city and know enough people to have someone to hang out with every day of the month if we liked. Lisbon’s become a huge digital nomad and tech startup hub over the past couple of years, and I’m thrilled to be here to watch it develop.
Portugal is one of the cheapest countries in Western Europe, but Lisbon has been growing in popularity over recent years and becoming more expensive. Accommodation, in particular, in Lisbon is pricey, but everything else is incredibly affordable.
At local cafes, you can grab a starter, main, glass of wine, and a coffee for under $5! I usually spend under $10 a meal at some of the best restaurants I’ve ever eaten at if I stick to drinking water. Bottles of good wine from the supermarket are around $3. For unlimited rides on all forms of public transport, a monthly pass is $35. Fruit and vegetables are cheap (you can grab a kilogram of strawberries, for example, for just $2.) Museums are free to enter on the first Sunday of every month.
It’s So Walkable
In the eight months I’ve been living here, I’ve used the metro exactly once and that was to get to the airport. I seriously have so little need to use public transport, because Lisbon is such a small city. And if I don’t feel like walking, taking an Uber the distance it would take me to walk 30 minutes is less than $5.
In this city, everywhere you could possibly need to get to is within a twenty minute walk, which makes seeing friends, sightseeing, and trying out new restaurants and bars super easy.
The Food Scene is Spectacular
Some of the best restaurants I’ve ever eaten at are in Lisbon. That’s not an exaggeration either. Local Portuguese food is delicious, and there are amazing international restaurants here, too.
Within a five-minute walk of my apartment, I can find some of the best Italian, Austrian, Mexican, Peruvian, Japanese, Argentinian, and Nepalese food of my life. I can even get better tacos than I had in Mexico! And life-changing burgers! There are cute coffee shops to work from nearby, too, one of which has the best cupcakes ever, and another of which has vegemite toast. There’s the cosiest speakeasy bar close by, and a tasty gin bar within walking distance. We even splashed out on a Michelin Star restaurant for our five year anniversary last month.
Lisbon isn’t really known as a food destination, but practically everything I’ve eaten has been so. freaking. delicious. I’m almost on the verge of declaring it my favourite city to eat in.
The only downside? We can’t find a really good Vietnamese restaurant!
The Weather is Perfect
Today is the 12th December and as sit on my apartment’s terrace, I’m looking out at bright blue skies with not a single cloud to ruin them. It’s 16 degrees (61F) today. Last week, it got as high as 20. That’s the type of European winter I love.
I was wondering whether planning to base myself in Europe would lead to me heading further afield over the winter months, but so far, I’m loving the mild weather.
It’s a Great Base to Travel From
Lisbon isn’t a major capital city in Europe, so I was nervous this would lead to expensive flights whenever I wanted to fly somewhere new. Fortunately, this hasn’t been the case at all!
Lisbon is perfectly situated to pick up bargain flights across Europe and Africa, both of which are going to be major travel focuses of mine over the next couple of years. Return flights to the U.S. can often be had for as little as $300, which makes popping over to see friends an easy trip to make. My return flights to South Africa for February were around $250 return from Lisbon!
English is Widely Spoken
I can’t believe how much English is spoken in Lisbon. It’s like being in the U.K., or at least the Netherlands.
It’s embarrassing to admit, but I literally know three Portuguese words. Eeek. Don’t worry — I’m not planning on becoming one of those British expats, and I’m already in the process of signing up for intensive Portuguese lessons for next year. I’m aiming to become conversational by the end of 2017.
But. The fact that I’ve been able to get by using English has made moving here so easy. Our estate agent spoke fluent English, our landlord speaks fluent English. Menus in restaurants are in English. All of the personal trainers at our gym speak English. If we stop anyone in the street or in stores, there’s usually a 90% chance they’ll speak English if they’re young.
I struggled a lot when basing myself in Spain last year, because the language barrier was so high (and I’ve studied Spanish for five years!). In Lisbon, I barely even notice one. It’s definitely made making local friends and integrating with the local community far easier than it should have been.
Are There Any Downsides?
Nowhere’s perfect and living in Lisbon does have some downsides.
First, the city is one of the hilliest I’ve ever come across — it definitely earns its nickname as the San Francisco of Europe. Practically every single street is on a hill, aside from the one that runs alongside the river. It’s not the end of the world, and I’m mostly used to it now, but it does make running outside practically impossible. And it’s kind of annoying when every walk you take ends up being an enormous workout.
Second, ordering stuff online is a horrendous process. For some reason, if you order anything from the U.S., it will be stopped by Portuguese customs and they’ll seriously investigate every single package. And that can take months. Dave ordered a backpack from the U.S. and argued with customs for two months because they didn’t believe the price he’d paid for it was correct — they actually sent the backpack back to the store! Friends have ordered supplements and had them kept at customs for four months, then been given a bill for basically the exact same amount as they’d paid for said supplements. It’s a nightmare and super-frustrating.
For a while, I only ordered from Amazon UK, but even that process has been riddled with problems. The courier Amazon uses employs workers who are notoriously lazy and useless. Half of my packages have never arrived. The things that have arrived often take as many as four delivery attempts, despite me being in, because the drivers just mark you as out so they can go home early.
Yeah, it’s frustrating. It sounds like a small issue, but it has limited the amount we can buy. Without an Amazon store in Portugal, I have been surprised by the amount of things I can’t find in Lisbon.
Oh, and the tax situation here is awful. I’m going to end up paying so much money in taxes, because Portugal charges 20% from the first euro you make.
Really, though, these are my only three frustrations, and they’re minor in the grand scheme of things.
Will I Remain in Lisbon Forever?
I adore Lisbon and it’s wonderful to be here. I’ll be extending my lease for another year when April rolls around, and I can see myself doing that several more times afterwards. Maybe more. Who knows what the future holds. Who knows what will happen when Brexit rolls around.
One thing I will say is that I’ve met many expats over the past five years, and one thing practically all of them have said is that they’ve never truly felt as though they belonged in their adopted home. Let’s face it: I’ll never be Portuguese. I’ll never know what it means to be Portuguese. I’ll never have as strong a connection to Portugal as I do the U.K. I’ll never understand the intricacies of Portuguese culture. Maybe that’s something I’ll find I can live with, or maybe not. I’m erring on the side of caution for now.
But either way, moving to Portugal is the best decision I’ve ever made. I feel happier here than I ever did when travelling, and I was deliriously happy when I travelled full-time. Lisbon really is just that great a city, and I’m so lucky to be able to live here.
I can’t wait to start sharing what it’s like to live in Lisbon with you guys! :-)